How Long Does It Take to Order and Receive a Wedding Dress?

After showing off that gorgeous ring to everyone you know, one of the first exciting tasks on your wedding planning list is finding "the dress." But here's something that might surprise you: getting your dream wedding dress isn't like buying a regular dress off the rack. The timeline for how long to order a wedding dress can be much longer than you'd expect, and understanding this process will save you from unnecessary stress later on.

Most brides need anywhere from 4 to 8 months from start to finish to get their perfect wedding dress ready for the big day. This timeline includes everything from your first shopping appointment to picking up your beautifully altered gown. I know that sounds like a long time, but trust me—there's a good reason for each step along the way.

Let me walk you through exactly what to expect during this journey, so you can plan accordingly and enjoy every moment of finding your dream dress without the last-minute panic.

Initial Consultation and Shopping (1-2 weeks)

Your wedding dress journey starts with the fun part—shopping! Most bridal boutiques require appointments, so you'll want to call ahead and book your slots. Popular shops can be booked out 2-3 weeks in advance, especially during peak wedding season (spring and fall).

During your first appointment, you'll try on different styles to figure out what you love. Some brides know exactly what they want and find their dress on the first visit. Others need to visit multiple shops and try on dozens of dresses before finding "the one." There's no right or wrong timeline here—take the time you need to feel confident in your choice.

Here's what typically happens during this phase:

• You'll browse different silhouettes, fabrics, and designers

• Try on sample dresses in various sizes (don't worry if they don't fit perfectly—that's what alterations are for!)

• Take photos and notes to remember your favorites

• Discuss budget and timeline with your consultant

Pro tip: Bring one or two trusted people with you, but not a huge group. Too many opinions can make the decision harder, not easier.

Ordering the Dress (4-6 months)

Once you've said "yes to the dress," the real waiting begins. Most wedding dresses are made-to-order, meaning they're not sitting in a warehouse somewhere waiting for you. Instead, your dress is crafted specifically for you after you place your order.

Standard production time ranges from 4 to 6 months for most designers. However, this can vary significantly:

• Popular designers during busy seasons might take longer

• Custom or heavily detailed dresses may need extra time

• Some luxury designers have even longer lead times

• Rush orders are sometimes possible for an additional fee (usually 4-8 weeks)

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This is why bridal consultants always recommend ordering your dress 6-8 months before your wedding date. It gives you a comfortable buffer for any unexpected delays, plus plenty of time for alterations.

During this waiting period, you'll typically pay a deposit (usually 50-60% of the dress cost) when you place the order, with the balance due when the dress arrives at the boutique.

Fittings and Alterations (1-2 months)

Your dress will likely need alterations—this is completely normal! Sample dresses in bridal shops are usually size 10 or 12, and even if you ordered your exact measurements, minor adjustments are almost always needed for the perfect fit.

Most brides need 2-3 fitting appointments:

First fitting (6-8 weeks before wedding): This is when you see your actual dress for the first time! Your seamstress will pin areas that need adjustment—hemming, taking in or letting out the bodice, adjusting straps, and more.

Second fitting (3-4 weeks before wedding): You'll try on the dress with most alterations complete. This appointment fine-tunes the fit and addresses any remaining issues.

Final fitting (1-2 weeks before wedding): The dress should fit perfectly now. You'll do a final check and pick up your gown.

Alteration costs typically range from $200-$800, depending on how much work is needed. Complex changes to the dress structure cost more than simple hemming or minor adjustments.

If you're cutting it close on time, rush alterations are sometimes possible, but they'll cost extra and may cause unnecessary stress.

Final Preparations (1-2 weeks)

You're almost there! During your final fitting, you'll discuss care instructions with your seamstress. Many brides choose to have their dress professionally steamed right before the wedding to ensure it looks absolutely perfect.

Here's what happens in these final weeks:

• Pick up your dress from the boutique

• Store it properly (hanging in a cool, dry place)

• Consider professional steaming a day or two before the wedding

• Handle any last-minute minor adjustments if needed

Some boutiques offer steaming services, or you can hire a professional to come to your getting-ready location on wedding morning.

So How Long Does It Take to Order a Wedding Dress?

Now that you know the typical timeline, here's how to plan backwards from your wedding date:

8-10 months before: Start dress shopping if you want plenty of options and no time pressure.

6-8 months before: Order your dress. This is the sweet spot that gives you enough time without starting too early.

6-8 weeks before: Schedule your first fitting once the dress arrives.

3-4 weeks before: Second fitting appointment.

1-2 weeks before: Final fitting and dress pickup.

Remember, these timelines can shift based on your specific situation. Destination weddings, holiday weekends, or choosing a less common size might require additional time.

The most important thing is to start early enough that you're not stressed about timing. Your wedding dress should bring you joy, not anxiety! Work closely with your bridal consultant to understand their specific timelines and processes.

Your Dream Dress Journey Starts Now

Finding and receiving your perfect wedding dress is a process that requires patience, but it's also one of the most exciting parts of wedding planning. By understanding how long to order a wedding dress and planning accordingly, you'll be able to enjoy each step of the journey.

Ready to start your dress shopping adventure? Book you appointment with Ever After Bridal and remember—the perfect dress is out there waiting for you. You've got plenty of time to find it when you plan ahead!